Thursday, January 8, 2009

Real or Counterfeit









Which one is real?? (answer at bottom of post)
The other day I was visiting with a business colleague of mine. While we talked about
business, our plans for 2009, the economy, taxes- we ended up talking about our past experiences. We discussed interesting stories about ourselves that showed the individualistic qualities we possess. Both she and I are seen by others as conservative, non-risk taking people. People look at our career, our clothes, our car and our haircut.

As she spoke about spending a year and a half in South Korea (teaching english), I shared my stories about selling books all summer in Bartlesville, OK. Our friends and families thought we were crazy to make the decisions we did, but we were supported in our actions. I talked about going "door to door." She told me that many of her roommates in South Korea were from the states and from BYU (mormons). I told her that I worked one side of the street while a mormon or a jehovah witness worked the other side. A few times I visited with these folks as we were all "on a mission."
My friend and I talked about how it is so easy to believe what our parents believed on a whole range of issues. But, it is vitally important that all of us seek out truth. Just because your parents or someone in authority believe something, does not make it right. We need to search out truth with our heart, soul and mind. Psalm 119:11 says, "I have hidden your words in my heart that I might not sin against you." This is David (killer of the giant, king, leader, adulterer, murderer, forgiven and shown grace by God) who is pouring out his heart. We have the holy spirit to help us know truth.
Not only did our discussion focus on the need to search out truth, and not be dogmatic about our beliefs, but we talked about having respect for others' ideas. She said that many people don't realize that jews, muslims and christians all spring out of the old testament. Great point. I don't know if my friend is attending a church, but she has alot of knowledge about other religions (maybe mostly from her time in South Korea).
I ended our discussion with talking about seeking truth. I said that it is amazing how many religions are out there and all the subsets of the religions. I heard years ago that the FBI trains agents on counterfeit knowledge by training them to know the dollar bill (inside and out) down to every detail. By truly knowing the genuine article and everything about it, you can more easily spot a fake. She liked that analogy. She said, "I like that dollar bill story. You do need to know what you believe before you speak about other religions or beliefs."
In my life, there are times when I see something or want something. It may be that my desire for that item/feeling leads me to a counterfeit. I may believe that by working more and earning more money- I can do more for my family or I can tithe more to God. Now, I'm not saying making more money is bad in istself. It depends on what my main motive is. For me, it can be pride and greed. I want to be genuine. I want others to see Jesus in me. One of the worst phrases that was said to me happened about 4 years ago. In a group of business colleagues, we started talking about church and faith. A guy said, "Brunk- you go to church? you're a Christian?" He did not see something different in me vs. the rest of the world. I had not been the genuine thing to him.




?? Right now, is there something in your life that is counterfeit? How have you gotten the counterfeit items out of your life?
Answer: the image on the right is the real bill.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Is God a God of Order?

Yes- I believe that our God is a God of order. Many times I hear people say that they got an idea "from God" and are going head-first towards taking action. Now, I am not saying that God doesn't prompt people through various means (people, the Holy Spirit, praying), but as we are to worship and use our heart and strength- we are also to use our mind.

In the book of Esther (Old Testament in the Bible) we learn about Esther who became a queen. She was the only hope for the jewish people. She was going to enter the king's prescense uninvited (which usually meant death) and ask him to spare the jewish people from the slaughter that had been decreed by Haman (who was climbing the corporate ladder fast and hated the jews especially because Mordecai (a jew) would not bow to Haman).

Before she approached her husband, the King, she and her servants fasted for 3 days. Now, I haven't fasted that much, and I'm not saying that before taking an action you must wait a few days. I am saying that our outreach will probably be more effective with prayer and some planning.

Has there been a time when you wish you had prepared more, before taking action???

Friday, January 2, 2009

Decision Making- Esther style

I reread the book of Esther, using the NASB. My dad ( a preacher for 20+yrs and a Bible college graduate) always told me that the NASB was the most accurate translation. Now that we are in the "holiday" season (have to be careful to not offend so we all say "holiday"), many people have a focus on God, Jesus and maybe even about going to church more often. This ties into new year's resolutions.We all want to be more spiritual probably, because we feel better about ourselves. I am willing to do some good deeds, pray with my family, read the Bible. All the safe things.

Before Esther approached the king (her husband), she made it clear to her cousin Mordecai, that a king must request a person to enter into his prescence or he can have them killed. He could let them live if he extends the golden scepter to them. She hadn't seen her husband, the king in 30 days. That means he had not requested her to come before him. Sure, he had a harem of many women, and scripture tells us that the king found Esther very attractive. But, he hadn't seen her in a month.This gutsy lady took Mordecai's words to heart and decided she would give her life freely for the sake of her jewish people. BEFORE she went before the king, she and her servants fasted. And, she asked Mordecai to fast as well. For 3 days they fasted and prayed. Then, she went before the king. She used her heart, soul and mind before taking action. She prayed and sought God's will.

How can I be more like Esther? When I spend more time in the word and in prayer, I seem to make better decisions. Every decision we make should line up with our belief system/our faith. I have the opportunity/responsibility to raise 3 children. Before I make any decision, I need to use my brain, but also seek God's will.

How do you make decisions, big and small? If you are married, do you discuss them with your spouse?